What Can Unify Us?

Is there are common core of humanity?

In a world seemingly fractured by divisions of belief, ideology, and identity, is there anything that can truly unify humanity? Beneath layers of prejudice, cultural divides, and hatred in its many forms lies a profound and universal force: unconditional compassion. This compassion, especially evident in our universal response to the suffering of innocent children, suggests a deeply embedded potential for unity.

Research in psychology and neuroscience repeatedly underscores that compassion, especially toward children and innocents, transcends cultural and individual differences. Studies reveal that human beings have an instinctual protective response toward children experiencing harm, suffering, or distress. This is not merely cultural conditioning but a biological and psychological imperative, suggesting a universal foundation for empathy and compassion.

Yet, humanity often appears trapped in cycles of conflict, prejudice, and violence. Hate manifests through entrenched beliefs and stagnant identities—rigid, inflexible concepts about self and others, rooted deeply in fear and survival instincts. When identity becomes fixed around beliefs, religion, nationality, race, or ideology, it inevitably fosters separation, mistrust, and eventually hate.

However, a significant shift occurs when individuals move away from these stagnant identities toward a flow identity—one characterized by humility, adaptability, and the wisdom encapsulated in the phrase, "I know that I don't know." This transition creates psychological space, dissolving the rigid boundaries that foster conflict, and paving the way for empathy to expand beyond immediate circles.

The concept of a "flow identity" finds support in the work of psychologists and philosophers alike, who recognize that fixed identities often serve as defenses against uncertainty and fear. When people let go of these fixed identities, they embrace a more fluid sense of self that is interconnected rather than isolated. This interconnectedness allows universal compassion to flourish. In the spaciousness of the unknown, prejudices dissolve, and unconditional love naturally emerges, connecting humanity at its deepest levels.

This phenomenon can be seen clearly in spontaneous acts of global compassion—responses to natural disasters, collective grief for suffering children during war, or worldwide outrage against injustices done to the innocent. These responses prove the existence of a universal compassion waiting just beneath the surface, ready to unify humanity once freed from the limitations of stagnant identities.

The teachings of spiritual and philosophical traditions worldwide echo this reality: at our core, humans harbor profound, unconditional compassion. Buddhist teachings emphasize the interconnectedness of all beings, suggesting that true compassion arises when we recognize our shared vulnerabilities and humanity. Similarly, the Tao Te Ching points toward humility and openness—qualities that dissolve ego barriers and awaken universal love.

Thus, the path to unity is through recognizing and dismantling the layers of selfishness, fear, and rigidity that protect stagnant identities. By cultivating humility, embracing uncertainty, and fostering adaptability—a "flow identity"—humanity can rediscover its inherent, unconditional compassion. This compassion, unbound by beliefs and prejudices, offers not merely a hopeful vision but a tangible pathway toward global unity and universal love.

We’d love to have you join us! There is no doubt that the world can move toward unity. Our core being, when the surface affections are stripped away, is universal love. Help us by joining one of our Flow Journey sessions. Zero cost to join. Want to know more? Contact either Stan or Alec and we’ll include you in our next Flow Journey movement!

stan@synergisticintelligence.com

alec@synergisticintelligence.com